DIY Holiday Decorations (Christmas & Chanukah)

DIY Christmas Tree
DIY Christmas Tree

Do-It-Yourself Holiday Decorations

It’s that time of year: the lights are sparkling, holiday music is playing everywhere you turn, and gingerbread lattes are readily available! I get so excited to decorate for the holidays, but I do dread the credit card bill at the end of the month. This year, I decided that there has to be some holiday decorating ideas that are chic, classy and personalized without busting my budget.

After sleuthing around on Pinterest and exploring the blogosphere, I was amazed at a multitude of great and incredibly inexpensive holiday decorating ideas. Decking the halls shouldn’t put you in the poor house, so let’s get started!

Set the Mood

You don’t have to purchase holiday music to feel that holiday cheer or set the tone for your gift wrapping, decorating or dinner party. Try making a Pandora station or Spotify playlist and include a few of your favorite artists. You might even find a few new festive songs to enjoy.

When decorating, candles are my go-to, as candlelight always creates such a lovely ambiance. Use various heights of candles in different colors and arrange them in glass mason jars with cranberries around the base of the candle. You can even make a menorah using craft boxes and candles from the dollar store. One fun project is to use old tin cans and make a holiday luminary to decorate the inside and outside of your home, which can be reused year after year.

Snow Men!
Snow Men!

Use What You’ve Got

When it comes to decoration, natural elements give a very classy touch. It’s amazing how many uses there are for tree branches and pine cones. Pick up a few extra boughs when you select your Christmas tree and take them home to decorate with metallic or colored spray paint. Make your own wreath or place them on the table with a candle in a glass jar for a festive centerpiece. You can also do the same spray-paint treatment to fruit to use as centerpieces, accent colors in glass bowls or jars, or as place settings for dinner party guests. I just love these little decorative pieces using Christmas tree sprigs and wine corks.

Want to be even more frugal? Use pine cones from your own backyard to decorate your home. You can also spray-paint them like this with metallic or sparkled paint for an extra pinch of pizzaz! The options are endless.

Meanwhile, make holiday cards multitask by hanging a ribbon and getting wooden clothespins to hang the cards as they come. Check out this roundup of festive ways to display your holiday cards.

Homemade Cinnamon Ornaments
Homemade Cinnamon Ornaments

Scour the Kitchen

There are quite a few things that are probably already in your house and kitchen that can be used to make amazing holiday decorations. For example, you could make a popcorn and cranberry garland for your tree or banister. For snacking and decoration, try these marshmallow dreidels. You can also float cranberries in water for an unconventional decoration piece like this. Use up festive paper and make paper Christmas trees or felt trees in various sizes. The paper trees also make great table top décor or name cards for dinner parties.

Some of my favorite holiday memories are around baking for the holidays and decorating the house. Mom brought both of them together and had us make our own ornaments one year. It was so much fun and my little angel still hangs on her tree each Christmas! Make your own cinnamon or salt dough ornaments and bring some personalized holiday cheer to your tree. They also make great gifts or even gift tags. You can also use model magic and create some lovely ornaments like these snowflake ornaments.

I love the smells of Christmas as much as the sights and sounds. One of the most common decorations that’s most readily available for any budget is to decorate oranges with cloves, called pomanders, like this. Use a large needle to poke holes and insert the cloves. You can even spell out festive words. Hang them around your house or on your tree or mantle and enjoy the fresh smell of citrus and spice!

Wine Bottle Advent Calendar
Wine Bottle Advent Calendar

D.I.Y.

The anticipation that comes with counting down to the holidays might be one of my favorite parts to incorporate into holiday décor. Try making your own advent calendar using paper bags and string. You could also paint a piece of wood and adhere number painted clothespins and dangle little presents like this advent calendar. If you are feeling festive as a wino, check out my favorite advent calendar of all time.

To make you own tree adornment, get clear glass ball ornaments at a craft store and paint them with festive and metallic paint like this or this. For Chanukah, these felt dreidel pouches can easily be stitched together to stash some goodies.

That should be enough to get your house somewhere near as festive as the Macy’s window in New York! For more décor, baking and holiday entertaining ideas visit my Christmas and Chanukah Pinterest boards.

(Original Publication, feature on Levo League here)

What are some of your tips and tricks for decorating on a budget? Share them in the comments section!

Holidays Stress: 7 Ways To Ditch The Worry (Posted on Huffington Post Women)

One holiday down, one to go. How is Christmas only three weeks away?! Somehow I got a bit of a head start on the gifting list but between getting the house decorated, Christmas cards finished and mailed, Holiday parties and obligations, traveling, cooking, baking, cleaning, working out and, oh yeah, a full-time job, life can get pretty stressful!

Luckily, there’s an article for that! Just so happens that it was picked up today by the Huffington Post Women and posted on the FRONT PAGE!

Yes.. I DID have to include a picture! It’s exciting!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Here is the full article, which was first published on the LEVO League here, and then was picked up by Huffington Post Women today! I wrote this article right before the holiday season started, as a reminder to myself as well as an attempt at helping all of you with tips for managing holiday stress…but mostly as a reminder for me! Trust me, preaching to the choir of one over here! Hope you find it helpful and I would love to hear in the comments section what your tips and tricks are for managing holiday stress!

Holiday Stress: 7 Ways To Ditch The Worry
By Kate Neschke, LocalLEVO Seattle Leader
Posted on LevoLeague Nov 20, 2012Posted on Huffington Post Women Dec 5, 2012

It’s that time of year again. Between the endless parties and obligations, visiting with friends and family (and sometimes avoiding certain friends and family), not to mention navigating decadent table spreads and endless office baked goods, it’s no wonder we sometimes dread the holiday season. Rest assured, there is a way you can manage the inevitable holiday stress and glide to a new year with balance, poise and at least most of your sanity in tact!

The key thing for managing holiday stress is to realize that we often can’t change the situations around us, but that we can change how we interact and respond in these situations. Which means, proper stress management starts with you…

Take Care… of You

Know your limits! Make sure to get enough sleep, drink water, balance your eating (which of course includes a cookie or two!) and most important, keep your sense of humor handy. This is supposed to be a joyful season, full of good times and many laughs. Sometimes that means laughing at yourself.

Say No

“Thank you so much for the invitation, but we have another engagement.”

Now isn’t that a nice way of saying no? It’s likely that you won’t be able to — or want to — attend every party or engagement to which you are invited, so here is a chance to prioritize which ones you’d like to attend and politely decline (with appropriate notice) the rest.

Keep Calm, Carry On… and Let Go!

You’ve likely seen these “Keep Calm, Carry On” posters popping up everywhere. As simple as it might seem, this is such a good reminder! One of the best tactics for holiday stress management is to learn what you can control and let go of the rest. Don’t let the hustle and bustle of the holidays overwhelm you. Keep calm in the moment by taking a deep breath, thinking before you speak and remembering that whatever is stressing you right this moment is not likely going to matter in one hour, or even one year. Keep your focus on the joy of the season and have fun!

Have a Little Grace

This one is important! Often, we women really focus on the little details and put so much focus on one aspect that we lose track of the overall picture. I can bet you a nicely frosted gingerbread cookie that no one is going to be focusing on those little details half as much as you are! Let go of control and have grace with yourself. Everyone forgets to serve a dish, or perfectly wrap some gift. Repeat mantra from above: “Keep calm, carry on then let it go!”

Accept Help

Just like you don’t have to control everything, you don’t have to do it on your own. Allow someone to bring a dish to the dinner party, when offered do your best to accept the help. ‘Tis the season for giving. Reward the giving mood in others and allow help!

Get Rid of Useless Worry

There is a difference between worry and planning. Trust that you will handle situations that might come up and focus on what it is truly in your control. Perhaps you could mentally walk through a situation that could be stressful and practice your response. Plan ahead what you can to minimize stress.

The last step for stress management ends with you…

Choose

Everyone finds themselves in situations that are not preferable — cue the awkward family dinner or significant other’s office Christmas party. In those uncomfortable moments, you choose your memories. How much fun you have is entirely up to you. You can focus on all the reasons why you’d rather be at home with some spiked eggnog in pajamas, or you can be present in the moment and make the choice to put forth an effort and find the good in your current situation.

So when you start to feel overwhelmed by too much family pressure or obligation, all the little details or overwhelming stress of presents and parties, remember that this is the season of joy. Trust that you can and will navigate holiday stress by taking care of yourself, setting and knowing your boundaries and choosing how you respond.

How do you deal with stress during the holidays? Tell us in the comments section!

Thoughts Create Your Future

The future is going to start charging me rent. I’ve been sneaking in from time to time and realized that I might actually qualify as a squatter. I’m so focused on the what lifestyle I would like to have and what my dream career someday. I keep telling myself that I’m just poking around to window shop what’s and making sure that I’m on track to live that life… someday.

Patience is NOT one of my strong virtues. In reality, I’ve been “trying on” the future a bit too often and have started getting discouraged.So, I decided that instead of a recipe or review (of which I have an appalling amount that need to be posted!, I decided that a little daily inspiration was in order. I found the image below on Pintrest and decided to meditate on this quote:

Today's Reminder
Today’s Reminder

 

 

 

 

                   “Every thought we think is creating our future. ~ Louise Hay”

 

 

 

 

 

 

Are you seeing the opportunity of what lies ahead and how to create that? Or are you focused on the limitations that may or may not present themselves and deciding before you even face them that they can’t be overcome. This really made me stop for a moment. The mindset with which I was window shopping my future was not inspiring me to achieve it. My focus was on all the reasons why I can’t or won’t achieve my goals. As much as I desire it, I was setting myself up for failure without even giving it a fighting chance.

Your life is being written day by day, moment by moment, are you the author or is someone else holding the pen? ~ Author Unknown

Each day you have a free will and a choice with every situation and thought that arises. Each positive response or action gets you one step closer to where and who you want to be. It’s like putting a penny in your piggy bank.  You can’t always change what happens to you but you can change how you react to it.

Steps for Positive Thinking to Achieve your Goals

Do you have a goal you’re striving for?

Without the clarity of what your goal is, it’s nearly impossible to work towards achieving it!

How are you Window shopping your goals?
                What is your mindset for achieving that goal? Are you looking at the possibility or the limitations?

Are you feeding your piggy bank?
                Are you taking each moment and though, and investing it in becoming or achieving what you desire?

 

                                            We are shaped by our thoughts; we become what we think. ~ Buddha

So, today I’m deciding to see the opportunity of my goals and dreams. I’m taking each thought and making sure I’m investing in my future. Thanks for the reminder Buddha…you’re a pretty smart guy!

What are some of your goals? Are you investing in achieving them?

 

 

 

 

 

 

I love Purpose Fairy’s 5 Easy Steps to Turn Your Life Into an Abundant Garden. That’s where I got the Lousie Hay quote above.
http://www.purposefairy.com/6491/5-easy-steps-to-turn-your-life-into-an-abundant-garden/?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=Feed%3A+PurposeFairy+%28Purpose+Fairy+-+Challenging+People+to+Challenge+Themselves%29

Inspiration: Go Do Them

Today's Inspiration
Today's Inspiration (photo from http://bippityboppityboo.tumblr.com/)

I love weekends! Two WHOLE days to do whatever you want…or as is usually the case…NEED to do. That pile of laundry, sorting mail and paying bills, house cleaning and fixing, organizing then all of the sudden it’s last sunday night and you didn’t even get a weekend! Well, thankfully that is not the case this weekend. I woke up this morning with NOTHING on the list! I didn’t even have a breakfast order from the ever hungry roomie!

N O T H I N G     T O   D O!

Well, I should say nothing that I “HAD” to do which always takes the fun out of it. Being the creative minded person that I am means that naturally I have a bunch of ideas stewing around in my head and wish I had 5 life times to complete. One of the wonderful things is that I CAN do them!

I LOVE today’s inspiration photo. It’s so simple and attainable. If you really want something, you should go get it. Have grace with yourself along the process. You might not have EVERYTHING you ever wanted immediately, but choose what you want to do and mindfully take action to achieve it. You’ll get there!!!

Weekend Coffee
Weekend Coffee

 

 

 

 

 

And just because I’m SURE you were dying to see what my breakfast looked like 🙂

Featured Blog of the Day on Foodista!!

Well, after what seems like weeks away, endless airports, taxis and train, we’re finally home from our two weeks of gallivanting around Spain! The house is buried under piles of laundry to be done, the camera is glaring at me with thousands of pictures to sort and days of e-mail to catch up on, we’re home! I’ve posted a quick preliminary write-up on our two weeks in Spain which you can read here.

A Byte of Life featured as the Blog of the day on Foodista
A Byte of Life featured as the Blog of the day on Foodista

BUT, the point of this particular post is to announce that A Byte of Life was featured as the Blog of the Day over at Foodista last Thursday! I didn’t have time to write a post in time since that was our 20 hour travel day home but I was HONORED to be included as a featured blog! Foodista is great for recipes, pictures, community and inspiration! You can also follow them on Facebook.

View the Foodista feature post here (its real time so you might have to scroll down to see the post).  They chose to feature “Seafood Breakfast for Dinner: Potato Parsnip Pancakes with Shaved Crab, Poached Eggs and Breakfast Cocktail Sauce“.

 

Thanks Foodista!! It’s an HONOR!!!

Simplify…

We live in a such a fast paced society which focuses on and prizes instant gratification. Fast food restaurants, online access to everything, twitter and four square to keep track of our friends and iphone to make sure we have 24/7 access to everyone and everything we could possibly need.

Do you ever wish you could just “simplify” life? Do you look forward to the weekends to just “do” nothing because it’s a tuesday and you’re already worn out from the week and thinking about what’s ahead? Read this quote and sit with it for a moment…

“Besides the noble art of getting things done, there is the noble art of leaving things undone. The wisdom of life consists in the elimination of non-essentials.”– Lin Yutang

“Leaving things undone”… what a foreign concept to many of us! We are always so focused on “getting things done” that we sometimes forget what the essentials are! The guilt of not completing can drive us to keep adding to our lists. Just stop for a moment and look at your “to do” list and see if there is anything that is a “non-essential” and… are you ready? Prepared for this? JUST… SAY… NO!!

Shocking!? YES I KNOW! 🙂 Just say no to events, people, commitments and chores that infringe on your plans for your life and your relaxation time.

Creating the life you desire means taking charge how you spend your time. Make decisions about what matters to YOU!

The 6 Marks of Maturity

This excerpt was passed along to me by my sweet mum and have some great wisdom! How often do you do any of the below? How can you in the next week choose to apply even one of these thoughts into action in your life? Have you faced any situations where you wished you would have responded in a more positive or constructive way? There are quite a few situations where I can think of in the past few weeks where, hindsight being 20/20, wish I would have responded in a more constructive and mature fashion.

The best part of life, is that you will have another chance and you hold the ability and opportunity to respond in a different way. Think now about how you wish you would respond to situations, prepare yourself and in the moment be the change you wish to see!!

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“…what it means to be whole, balanced, sane, and able to cope with life.

The FIRST mark of maturity is the ability to deal constructively with reality, to face facts, to resist covering, or calling reality something else, to deal with is at it is.

The SECOND mark is the ability to adapt quickly to change. We all experience change, whether it be physical, emotional, spiritual, mental, relational, or vocational. Immature people resist change; it makes them nervous. But the mark of maturity is to adapt to change because change is inevitable.

The THIRD mark is freedom from the symptoms of tension and anxiety. The worried look, the frown, the ulcers, the palpitations of the heart- all come from anxiety and worry and lack of trust.

FOURTH, maturity is being more satisfied with giving that receiving. When you find greater joy in the thoughtful planning of gifts and surprises for others, anticipating their happiness rather then your own, it is a sign you are growing up. You are discovering the true values of life.

The FIFTH mark is the ability to relate to others with consistency, helpfulness, and mutual satisfaction. Maturity is learning to get along with other people, to be a help not a hindrance, to contribute to the solution and not always be a part of the problem.

Finally, maturity is the ability to sublimate and redirect anger toward constructive ends. Maturity is the ability to use the adrenaline created by anger in a positive way, rather than loose your temper and add to the problem.

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Excerpt from “Waiting for the Second Coming: Studies in Thessalonians” by Ray C. Stedman

Available on Amazon.com:
http://www.amazon.com/Waiting-Second-Coming-Studies-Thessalonians/dp/0929239148/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1281658811&sr=8-1
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Favorite Quotes

I love to learn from others, both through their successes and from the ways that didn’t “quite work” the first, second, third + time around. Everyone has such different experiences with different ways to respond to situations and one of the joys of living with an open mind and a hungry spirit is sharing and learning from others journeys. A few years ago, I started collecting quotes. Now, I must tell you that I have a very minimalist personality and haven’t “collected” since I was young and had my very own and quite expansive rock collection, which my parents kindly and wisely refused to box up and move from LA to Seattle.  I recovered from the “loss” of my rocks, which a short attention span helped me to forget, and realized that collecting friends was much more fun and exponentially more rewarding.

So, I have realized or more accurately hoped that there may be others out there such as myself that sometimes need a little reminder, guidance, laugh, wisdom, pick me up, grounding, encouragement or _____ (you fill in the blank). While I would be overjoyed to share my friends I’ve collected (let me know if you’re ever in my neck of the woods!) so what I can share with you is my quote collection. This will be an ongoing project, and I would be DELIGHTED to have input from you, my dear friends, with additions to this list. Let it grow and spread that little ____ that’s needed!!!

Invest in the possibility of enriching those around you!

I also curate the Pinterest Board: “Well Said…” which is an on going collection of inspiring and funny quotes and I’m always adding more!

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“Happiness is an attitude. We either make ourselves miserable, or happy and strong. The amount of work is the same. ”
-Francesca Reigler

“Life isn’t about finding yourself, Life is about creating yourself.”
-Unknown

“Go confidently in the direction of your dreams! Life the life you’ve imagined.”
-Thoreau

“Live the rest of your life in possibility”
-Benjamin Zander

“Attitude is a little thing that makes a big difference.”
-Winston Churchill

“Freedom is what you do with what’s been done to you.”
– Jean-Paul Sartre

“I can change. I can live out my imagination instead of my memory. I can tie myself to my limitless potential instead of my limiting past.”
– Stephen Covey

“Change. It has the power to uplift, to heal, to stimulate, surprise, open new doors, bring fresh experience and create excitement in life. Certainly it is worth the risk.”
– Leo Buscaglia

“Don’t go through life, grow through life.”
– Eric Butterworth

“Happiness will come to you when it comes from you. Success will be yours when you choose to take responsibility for making it so”
-Unknown

“The difference between the impossible and the possible lies in a [wo]man’s determination.”
-Tommy Lasorda

“People spend too much time finding other people to blame, too much energy finding excuses for not being what they are capable of being, and not enough energy putting themselves on the line, growing out of the past, and getting on with their lives.”
– J. Michael Straczynski

“To try is to risk failure. But risk must be taken because the greatest hazard of life is to risk nothing. The person who risks nothing does nothing, has nothing, is nothing. He may avoid suffering and sorrow, but he simply cannot learn, feel, change, grow, live, and love.”
– Leo Buscaglia

“Be not afraid of changing slowly; be afraid only of standing still.”
– Chinese Proverb

“You must be the change you wish to see in the world.”
– Gandhi

“The highest reward for a man’s toil is not what he gets for it, but what he becomes by it.”
-John Ruskin

“Our ultimate freedom is the right and power to decide how anybody or anything outside ourselves will affect us.”
– Stephen Covey

“The Meaning of life… is to give Life meaning”
-Ken Hudgins

“Believe that life is worth living, and your belief will help create that fact.”
-William James

“If you do not change direction, you may end up heading where you are heading. ”
-Lao Tzu

“Do not pray for easy lives. Pray to be stronger men.”
-John F. Kennedy

“It is never to late to be what you might have been.”
-George Eliot

“Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless.”
-Mother Teresa

“The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts.”
-Marcus Aurelius

“Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time.”
-Thomas Edison

“Eagles may soar…but weasels never get sucked into jet engines”

“We have the need to be accepted and to be loved by others, but we cannot accept and love ourselves. The more self-love we have, the less we will experience self-abuse. Self-abuse comes from self-rejection, and self-rejection comes from having an image of what it means to be perfect and never measuring up to that ideal. Our image of perfection is the reason we reject ourselves the way we are, and why we don’t accept others the way they are.”
– Don Miguel Ruiz

“Your fears are not walls, but hurdles. Courage is not the absence of fear, but the conquering of it.” — Dan Millman How do we conquer fear? With action. Millman says that action is the ONLY way to move through fear. Fear aims to stop us in our tracks. When we step forward anyway, our anxiety eases. We begin to pay attention to what’s actually going on instead of being trapped in fearful speculation. When we’ve done it once, we can do it again. And again. And again. “Many of our fears are tissue-paper-thin, and a single courageous step would carry us clear through them.”
– Brendan Francis

I have the simplest of tastes, I am always satisfied with the best
-Oscar Wilde

My only regret in life is that I did not drink more wine

-Ernest Hemmingway

The ornament of a house Is the friends who frequent it.

-Ralph Waldo Emerson

Stick around. I may need someone to blame.
-Oscar Wilde

 

 

 

 

Do Less

Cinderelly, Cinderelly
Night and day it’s Cinderelly
Make the fire, fix the breakfast
Wash the dishes, do the mopping

Does this sound like your day? Do you feel like you’re constantly running in 7 directions but not actually going anywhere? Who’s idea was it to “do”.. we “do” this and “do” that…Here’s a thought, DO LESS! When you start to wonder what you should or shouldn’t be doing, planning, attending… just… do… LESS!! You’ll be surprised at the freedom and clarity of what’s important when you stop and realize that not ever thing needs to be “done”.

Take a look at your to-do list and cut half of it off, delegate,

Just…. Do…… LESS!!!!